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Again, for realist only. No gainsaying that the world has turn (no, has been) on the reverse. Most of the things we were taught or we think or see as values and virtues are in the real world weakness. I do not force you to believe this awkward philosophy as it may seem to you. However, they are ageless truth but unfortunately, to keep the trivial majority powerless and the vital minority powerful, these well articulated weaknesses dressed as values and virtues are being upheld by not all but only the weak and this weak people are majority of every single clime.

From ancient time, power, wealth and what have you had only be accrue by people who lack these societal values and virtues yet we keep following the norm. In my thoughts, evaluations and deductions, good girls marry late and most cases end up marrying what's left after the bitches had gotten hold of the productive men.
Good and committed, dedicated, laborious workers take home what's left after those who reap where they didn't sow has siphoned or stolen the chunk of the funds. The worse of people in terms of values and virtues has always been and will always be chosen as our leaders. If we aren't chosen them, they force their leardership on us and to maintain tranquility and peace we accept them. Check them out, from Hitler, to Trump, from Babagida to Buhari. To assent to this, check out your community/village leadership.

This includes spiritual and religious leadership. In my opinion, it seems the "badder" the more powerful. Innocent people had been sent to jail in most occasions and criminals set free, if not, Barabas wouldn't be set free and Jesus Christ sentensed. The rules and laws are made for the weak in the society and the more you obey rules and laws the weaker you become and weak minds like you applauds you for values and virtues.

Again I'm not saying you get "badder" I'm only bringing to your notice, to leave your comfort zone, break the rules/laws you will definitely get involved but do not falter, hold your grip, challenge the norm, try something you haven't done before, set audacious goals, set your boats ablaze such that you wouldn't be able to retreat after you had crossed the sea. You just gotta do something that society may frown at but like I said never falter, at the end you will go down in the history. Check them out, they are the ones who make it to the history books but if you can't shoulder the criticism stay put . 

Why do bad things happen to good people

This a typical question asked by people. The JW use this question to initiate conversation with prospective clients  so to say. However, they (JW) tends to streamline their answers to suit their purpose.

There are more than two sides to this coin we have to consider the bevel of the Coin in this case. Knowing me very well, controversy is my companion and i think from the abonormal point of view.

Be ye a Jew or a Gentile, we live under same Sky, same Sun, same Moon.  Since everyone live under same shield and breathe in same oxygen meaning nature treats us equally irrespective of how good or bad we are. On the first place, if there's going to be a natural disaster, there's no going to be natural selection of the good people from the bad people. Everyone domicile at the point of the disaster is a victim.

Knowing fully well there are lots of humans under the sun  who don't care for anyone except themselves, and are ready to do anything to get self satisfaction, good people tend to play by the rules and tend to prevent these people that are ready to do anything for their ambition hence, they become the victim of circumstance. Same reason why Nicolo Machiavelli said that a man who try to be good all the time is most likely to ruin himself.

By this, I'm not advocating everyone of us follow a pattern of life that's cruel to humanity but everyone of us should be abreast with the fact that the  evil thereof of each day shall always be fulfilled. The victim could be you or me. Therefore, never be too good else, you'll be ruined among many who are bad and never be too bad else, you will still be ruin by your specie.

Onwuenowosi Chidubem

Morality; Old fashioned.

In this age, everyone of us want to be morally sound but the fact remains that morality is old fashioned. I stand the risk of criticism. However, I'm not afraid aspersions cos unconventionalism is my way and looking at issues from a normal order of perspective and saying my bitter opinion which no one will if I don't is what I will always do.

Today, any business that is living in the old order of morality will experience the dinosaurian extinction. The business may tarry for a while but I tell you, it shall not tarry. Take a look around your environment and look at our orthodox churches, those that doesn't compromise their dogma are at the brink of going into extinction.

A scientist once said that great changes in the environment results with the corresponding changes in species and species begin to develop new structures and habits to be able to adjust to the new prevailing environment so as to survive the competition in the environment. I use to be a victim of morality but today, I realized that God is same today tomorrow and forever but there's a great difference between what God said and what God is saying.

Old ways doesn't open new door. Have you ever heard of the statement "when you get to Rome, behave like the Romans"? The times has change and bro, you gotta change with the time else, you go into extinction. Let go of whatever that limits you. If at all you will be limited, don't let it be on a moral ground.

Cheaters don't win but in my world they do win a times . I never said you should cheat but never go empty handed.  See you at the top as you let go of whatever that makes you stop

What Women Want. www

When it comes to the issue of what Women want, most men I'm sorry to say has no idea on how to give a lady what she wants be it tangible or intangible. This is why guys who want to impress don't mind buying a lady hot pepper soup in a hot afternoon. If this has been your challenge, you can always contact us here and a love scientist who graduated from the university of love and women desires will attend to you.

Before you get a beautiful girl to your arms, you gotta make her fall in love with you first.
To be charming to women, you have to understand how they think, feel and most importantly how they are wired. I mean the connection between their thoughts, desires, and realities. In fact, I advice you think like a man but you gotta behave to suit her. The idea of being yourself, it's quite theoretically fascinating but in reality, the art of love is all about maneuvering and unconventionalism. Sticking to a particular pattern of approach to romance is deadliest of boredom.

You must say and do things that affect them emotionally. Make them cry a times and most times happy. Never you attempt to make them too comfortable nor push them to the edge. Finding a balance between tears and laughter is the key.

Act romantic, not sex crazed. They need attention, long for affection and deserves appreciation the least effort the put to a cause.

Needless to say, they like guys that are conservative enough but not primitive.
Leaving your pocket open is a wonderful tonic for nearly every girl.

To be continued...............

Good Wine in the Wrong Glass

In a world full of modern trends, frenzies and technologies, Life has been fair enough to proclaim all as special. A look at what is in the social space, there's little or no remarkable line to differentiate the Jews from the Gentiles yet we all know where we belong in reality. 

You grow up knowing you are your fathers son and your mamas pride and all you ever want to do is to make them proud by making your dreams come through you push on with your goals to make them a reality but soon enough you thought maybe it is just a fantasy that needs a little bit of  hard work, dedication and self sacrifice you have now decided to go for an adventure in life;

However it is true you are tempted to change everything immediately in your life, you decided to first of all purge yourself from the wrong things you often do that will deprive you of glory like smoking, angry, stop staying out too late at nights and you think of doing the right things like eating better , getting mum good clothes and dad a beautiful shelter that would make all comfortable. Along the line, because of the trendy frenzies, priorities change- getting a new iPhone, a beautiful laptop, the most recent designer tags and all of such good but no innate value(s) begin to top the priority list.

A modern person is very realistic, he recognizes that there is a limit to his time, energy and resources so rather than trying to change everything at once he makes improvement gradually and thus; give room for rapid growth later on,but in this our modern trend this has been applied otherwise ,it is now  easier to do the wrong things and so very difficult to do the right things people now dare not to think ahead anymore making it easy for them to face a situation that could undermine their goals and put them in a complex situation that makes them gnash and regret reasons for living in the world .This is obviously a reason why some people are far more successful than others for some wrong decisions some people have disoriented their priorities In the course of changing their wrong habits and given room for the right things at the same time has disjointed and even caused a misplacement of priorities.

You can imagine a young man with a very poor background living in a hut with his poor parents, they can't afford his tuition since all they could do is till the ground in the farm. Nevertheless, they still obliged to take him to college not for any reason but because they saw their child as the beacon light of hope, he is that great wine they think they could drink from before departing this complex world this young man knowing this made up his mind to ensure that he become the success his parents wants him to become ...off he went to college but priorities changed, he joined the boys and forgot his aging parents that's how this world is like now we tend to forget the right things we ought to have done for the wrong things that gives pleasure temporarily.So many beautiful people with great potentials doing the wrong things, they are that beautiful wine in that wrong glass. Now you can imagine the fate of that boy's parents college is now complete and parents of that boy was waiting for their only son- their hope to live and shine on to come home and celebrate but what they saw was a corpse. Oh! poor soul he had a blood bath with a rival confraternity and he became a victim of a disjointed casualty a bullet has hit him on the chest while on the run,his dreams of making his parents proud now remains a fantasy mama soul is lost fathers heart is broken forever and the hope of yesterday has faded just like the waning moon because that beautiful wine has chosen to be in the wrong glass.

Association is a major stakeholder in deciding what one becomes. Your association determines your acceleration. Show me your friend and I will tell you where you are going to.You are the good wine, you have to decide which  glass you want to be in. In the wrong glass or the good one? Choose your association wisely.

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Etolor Peter.

Happy New year Fams

It's a new year with different tags and themes from different religious denominations. But what it will be in reality is what you make out of it. At the beginning of the year, don't forget we all have the same number of days, hours, minutes and seconds. I'm not saying everyone has equal opportunities because some of us has attracted opportunity furs to ourselves consequence upon what we had made out of our previous years.

I urge you today, irrespective of what your tag and themes for the year may be, resolve to be one of those that will maximize the days In this year. Increase your number of effective minutes and write your name amongst those who'll always mark 2018 as a year to remember not because of the discontent that will come alongside it but because of the significant contributions that society will be grateful for in this year and in years to come. Brace yourself, be ready, plan all the way, put in your strength with sagacity and resolve to learn new while attempting new things and being consistent with what you already know.

See you at the top in December.     Cheers!!!

Happy New Year Fams.